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Heb. 10:14 For by one offering
He has perfected forever those who are being
sanctified.
The above scripture points out that
those in Christ Jesus have already been perfected through the work of
the cross. (We are now a perfect people in an imperfect life)
Christ in us is perfect He
is the perfect father, mother, child, employer, employee, leader,
worshiper etc.... He is all and in all living out His will in our
lives.
Many today struggle with being a
perfectionist all the time they are really seeking excellence.
7 ways to know the difference:
A
perfectionist-----------------------------A person of excellence
1---Sets standards beyond reach and
reason.------ Sets high standards that make them
stretch.
2--Is never satisfied by anything less
than perfection------Learns to enjoy the journey as
well as the outcome.
3.--Sees mistakes as evidence of
unworthiness----- Sees mistakes as opportunities for
growth and learning.
4--Becomes dysfunctional, and depressed
when they experience failure-----They bounce back
quickly with energy and vision.
5--Can become overly defensive when
criticized-----Welcome's criticism and responds
positively.
6--Is preoccupied with fear of failure
and disapproval-----Uses fear of failure to
motivation.
7-Becomes very angry when things do not
go as expected ----- Reposition's themselves to
become more effective.
In addition to all of this; it should
be pointed out that perfectionist are driven, while people of
excellence just simply have drive.
In closing: I would point out that it
is simply alright to fail, that does not mean you are a failure.
Remember It is God's grace anyway that will perform His purpose not
because of us, but in spite of us.
Scott Stimson Sr.
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